You will find in this blog my suggestions as to how to make our world a better place to live in.
I largely restrict myself to the first step of this grand aim, by examining how I may improve myself, and thus, make this a better world, at least, for me.
My underlying wish is that you, too, may want to adopt some of the suggestions I propose to your own needs, and thereby make your world, too, a little bit better for you.
A joke: My neighbour's dogs has a habit of yelping away late into the night. One day I picked up the courage to tell the neighbour that he should do something to quieten up his dogs at night, they were a nuisance, keeping me up all night.
The neighbour retorted, "What's wrong with you buddy? Don't you know dogs bark. That is their nature."
A NEW YEAR, A NEW YOU.
I want to have a new me for the new year. No more sorrow for lost time, for lost opportunities, for bad habits.
I want to break out of my old thoughts, and ideas. I want to have the courage to leave my comfort zone, and push into unchartered territories, that would help me develop new skills.
One thing is sure, if I keep doing the same as i did all of last year, I will have the same result for me as I had for the year gone by, namely, having done nothing to be proud of.
Like a moth emerging from a cocoon as a bright butterfly, I want to be free of the shackles of my glum despondency, of my past failures, and fly off onto new ventures with vigour and joyous freshness.
One way I can break out of my bad habits is to analyse, carefully, what I gain by persisting with my bad habits. Once I know what my secret gain is, then I should be able to decide if I want that gain, or let it go. It should then be easy for me to break out of the bad habit.
As an example, in my own situation, it may be that I continually perform less than my abilities, and earn less money than I could, keeping me poor, because my gain is that I do not have to spend money on luxuries, and extravagant expenses.
That way I am able to be frugal, be careful with my money, and maintain the "a penny saved is a penny earned" motto. That is what my elders taught me, as I was growing up. Being careful with money was a measure of my being clever, smart, and a success.
May be my earning just enough to live at a normal level allows me to fulfil those secret criteria for me of success, and achievement, even though I often feel bitter at my poverty.
Assuming there is some truth in my reasoning, I will, in the new year, be not afraid to spend money. I will still not spend more than I have, be careful with my money, but noting that I can increase my earnings, and then will happily "waste" money and not feel bad for doing so.
My joy in exposing my heart thus is that you, too, if you are in much the same boat as I am in, may, by adopting a similar reasoning, be able to gain a lot of wealth in the new year.
Wishing you every success. Shree-1
